In going through moments where we struggle with the feeling of loneliness it is noteworthy to be cognizant of the following:
1. There are other brothers and sisters across the world that may be in the same situation as you.
2. Jesus, himself suffered from this feeling of abandonment upon the cross (Matt. 27:46).
3. He sent His Holy Spirit, Our Comforter, so that we would never have to suffer alone and that we would have the power to overcome.
4. Finally, if we allow loneliness to takeover, it may lead to self-pity, bitterness, depression and so forth.
I find it very comforting when being in a situation, that I am able to get advice or comfort from someone who went through the same thing. When Jesus took on the sins of the world, He felt abandoned by God, yet we have to remember one thing – God promised that He will never leave nor forsake us.
So the question is this:
If God promises to NEVER leave nor forsake, why would Jesus ask “…my God, why hast thou forsaken Me?”
I believe the reason Jesus asked this question is based on the truth that He lived an entire life without sin. Once He took on all the sins of the entire world, generations gone and those to come, He felt the most powerful effect of sin; SEPARATION FROM GOD.
Sin separates us from God and not God from us.
Surely the arm of the LORD is not too short to save, nor his ear too dull to hear. But your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear. Isaiah 59: 1-2
Sin is the severance of an electrical item from its power supply. Remove a bulb from its socket and all you’ll have is glass. Removing ourselves from His presence via sin only open us up to a devil who not only want us to feel lonely, but to be lonely for eternity. For if Hell is one thing assured, it is an eternal separation from God.